answerJam

Here is another way to look at it.

This is an unfriendly, unforgiving, brutal, calous world - with a few true vestiges of goodness. But only a few. Despite your personal struggle, which I acknowledge, remember that bringing someone new into this world is not always the best thing for them. Sure, life is precious, but hypothetical life.. is merely an if. Life is present right here, right now, and within your own self. Concentrate instead on what is, and not only what could have been, and remember that every choice is another opprotunity, not to regret that choice, but to find what you can make out of the situation you have now given yourself. Regret will keep you stationary - an open heart and mind will always see you through any hardship, and in to the welcoming arms of hope.

While the options mentioned above are good, there are still worlds of choices for you, and you have the freedom to go down any road you want, so that you may better not only your life that you live here and now, but that you may better the lives of all those who yet exist in this world, now.

I am really sorry to hear that. Only thing I can say is that you have to look forward and move on. You can't dwell too much in the past, especially if you can't change things anymore.

I wish you strength,
Cornrows

Wow those are all great comments that you given people I am a person tha feels the same way and I am 28 and most people look at me like I am a freak for not having any children I was pregnant once and that didn't work out so well I was only 17 at the time and the father was a dead beat, my mother told me not to do this ever again while we were driving to the clinic I said ( yes mame ) and what can I say it was nnly one thing I listened to LOL it never happened and it costed me some relationships as I got older my mother now regrets me not keeping the baby because she had No idea that the opportunity of being a mother again will never come to me again and I never been the type of person or kid that did what other people were doing because it was just the thing to do....LOL all my friends grew up and had kids and some had families and got married and I truly realized that I wanted what they had but then at the end of watching them and how they struggled and aruged with they partner it make me feel that I want that but I know me and I never have that kind of patience for a husband and kids plus they barely can't feed there kids because of what's going on in the world today which I would never wanna put children in that type of struggle so look at it as not lucky but if your in a life where you are a good provider then kids are the right thing for you, you can adopt the options of having kids are their it may not be how you want it but it is a great option for you I think you will make a great parent....

Take Good Care