I was in a relationship with a man who I thought was the greatest individual ever- so smart, so funny and very compassionate. We were together for 10years and the best of friends before we started dating. We have a four year old together also. For the past year we had been going through some really rough times: financially, he was depressed because of not being able to finish medical school and I was feeling not like myself (maybe depressed/ deflated) Three weeks ago after spending an intimate afternoon with him he told me he wanted to have a relationship with another woman, his "business partner" (someone he claimed did not even date men- a lesbian). I was shocked and hurt so I called her and found out that they have been in an relationship for over six years. I don't know what to do, he was my best friend, or at least I thought he was. I am having a difficult time trying to rationalize what has happened to my life. My kid is having the worst time with this, she is used to mom and dad being really great friends and being with each other daily and now I can't even bring myself to look at him with out becoming physically ill. How does one recover from such dishonesty?
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dohickey said:
you recover slowly, and more wise for it... liars always lie -- so if they lie once they are lying a lot that you don't catch. just know it gets better
kissykakes said:
He just made one mistake. Are you really so selfish you can't forgive him? Some men are just too masculine for only one woman. Now that you've been bred and your body is shot, drop to your knees and give thanks that you have him. Maybe you need to spice things up a bit, have you offered him anal?
Shy said:
Are you for fucking real? What the fuck is wrong with you?
1. My body is not shot, infact I look better now than before I was pregnant.
2. What I look like has little to do with it, because the new woman look likes an unattractive man.
3. I don't want him anymore, I miss the friendship thought.
4. I love being fucked in the ass.
5. your a fucking retard. I have read what you wrote to others and your track record proves the before statement.
Kimberly4twenT said:
I concur...
Kimberly4twenT said:
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